The Mace Energy Method
It’s called the Mace Energy Method™ (MEM™)—a revolutionary approach to emotional healing developed by John Mace, a Master Mariner who navigated cargo ships across oceans.
John wasn’t trained in psychology or medicine.
He was trained by the sea.
And it was the sea that taught him something profound:
“My ability to navigate depends on unseen forces—gravity, magnetism.
What unseen forces are affecting my life?”
That question led to a discovery:
We are shaped by identities—some conscious, some hidden.
Positive Identities
These are the ones we knowingly create:
They are the conscious ones…
“I am a parent”.
“I am a teacher.”
“I am a healer.”
“I am strong.”
They give us purpose and direction.
Negative Identities
These are the ones given to us by our trauma’s and upsets.
They are the hidden ones…
They live rent-free in our subconscious, siphoning our energy and peace.
“I’m broken.”
“I’m not good enough.”
“I’ll never be happy.”
“I’m damaged goods.”
You unintendedly chose these.
and.. they’re running the show.
What Makes MEM™ Different?
No storytelling
No diagnosis
No advice
No self-help loops
Just your own truth, gently guided
With minimal disclosure, I help you uncover the low-level decisions that have been quietly draining your energy.
You don’t need to explain your pain.
You just need to be willing to let it go.
You don’t need to explain your pain. You just need to be willing to let it go.
Who is this for?
- Adults who’ve done the work but still feel stuck
- Parents who want to help their children through emotional upsets
- Veterans, first responders, and caregivers carrying invisible weight
- Anyone who’s experienced trauma, bullying, narcissistic relationships, addiction, child/parent/ relationship/abuse, or chronic emotional pain, Cumulative/Core PTSD, moral injury,
- Seekers who feel like they’ve tried everything and still feel like something’s missing
A Teenager said it best:
“We aren’t getting rid of parts of ourselves that feel bad things…
We’re getting rid of the negative thoughts that hurt us.
We’re healing those parts.
We’re getting rid of the mosquitoes—bad thoughts that latch on and take our energy.
Energy that should be used for good.”
Are you ready to feel like you again?
This is the missing link.
The paradigm shift.
The quiet revolution in emotional healing.
Let’s lighten the load.
Let’s reclaim your energy.
“My experience with Ian and the Mace method was nothing short of transformational… the world was brighter, my mind was clearer, and there was a re-kindling of inner freedom, joy, and excitement for my work and my life and the future ahead!
Bryan Hardy
